didn’t we all grow up needing to be secretive? is it because of the adage of how ‘everyone thinks women are hot’ so like even straight women would get turned on more by their own moaning?
like as a guy i don’t even…have the impulse to involve my voice in it at all
This doesn’t tally at all with my experience.
I wonder if it varies from culture to culture and how much of it is influenced by self-reporting.