It’s one of the reasons I hate having one person cook and the other clean — the incentives are misaligned, and it just breeds bad habits and reckless cooking IMHO. If you do both cooking and cleaning, you’ll hopefully learn to clean as you go.
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qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto memes@lemmy.world•The Company Has Reported Strong Financial Performance4·4 days agoFor all the problems in the tech industry, having a large chunk of your compensation be in the form of RSUs does address this meme’s complaint. Company does well = you get paid more.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What ya nerds set your thermostats to?3·4 days agoHere’s January of this year. San Francisco, so pretty moderate weather — typically don’t run heat during the day, and low 60s at night (if at all) during the winter. Large temperature gradient throughout house, typically.
South facing windows gives kitchen and living room a greenhouse effect, particularly in the winter, hence the large daily temperature swings:
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto World News@lemmy.world•Japan bus driver with 3 decades of service loses $84,000 pension after he was caught stealing $7English3·4 days agoWe’re expecting a baby. Do people travel with a baby? Is it safe? Is it insane? I think we’re just gonna have to stay put for 3 years or so.
If your baby isn’t super fussy, the transportation difficulty (in our experience) is more in the logistics getting to/from airport, and dealing with other ground transportation. We just flew 5+hrs (coast to coast, US) with a 2mo and a ~3yo, and it was a piece of cake (typing that, I’ve jinxed the return flight…).
We haven’t done international travel with our kids yet, but we will eventually. When I was 2 my family went to Europe — some countries were meh with respect to kids, but Italy (from my folks’ retelling) was fantastic, as there is (or was) a big cultural love for young kids.
YMMV of course, but it’s absolutely doable! Kids — even starting as babies — have personalities, and you’ll get a sense of what’s appropriate with yours. Good luck!
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's something that's free that everyone should know about?2·5 days agoGood point — it is “incrementally free,” although I guess if you count tire wear and tear that’s not even true.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What are some FOSS programs that are objectively better than their proprietary counterparts?17·6 days agoA lot of non-graphical utilities — basically the *NIX coreutils, plus stuff like rsync, ssh, compression/archival tools (tar, gzip, bzip2, etc.), grep, and the like. Git also comes to mind.
I think part of this is that the UNIX philosophy is “developer friendly” — tell a good dev they need to make a compression utility that follows this protocol, and they will make a compression utility that follows the protocol.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's something that's free that everyone should know about?25·6 days agoYour local city college may or may not offer free classes (in San Francisco, you just need to show proof that you live in the city with some legal status).
Some public transportation is free for certain groups (youth and folks experiencing homelessness can get free passes here).
“First X of the month” at the zoo/a museum/whatever — lots of venues have free events.
A jog, bike ride, hike — lots of great stuff outside!
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?10·13 days agoThe bank doesn’t own the house, they just have a significant lien against it. Maybe a potato potato situation (how are you supposed to spell that phrase 🤔), but it is an important distinction.
Landlords can get pissed if you paint the walls/change appliances/remodel/etc., but so long as the property is properly insured (and you make your loan payments on time) the bank probably isn’t going to bother you.
Landlords can — and do — place restrictions on quiet hours, guest policy, who is allowed to live there, etc. Owning is definitely different.
Some cities offer guides or services for native plants! https://sfpublicworks.org/services/plant-lists-and-palettes
It’s even divided across the city’s different climate zones (San Francisco is small, but can have huge differences in weather from one side to the other).
I recall a SoCal city even offering free consultation for native gardens.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto News@lemmy.world•REI says it was a ‘mistake’ to endorse Trump interior secretary10·15 days agoWe’re in the market for a kid carrying ebike, and while REI makes the most financial sense, I think we’ll be paying a visit to our LBS.
As an aside, I tend to prefer Sports Basement. Have had better luck with their bike department, too. No idea if they’re better from a corporate standpoint though.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What steps do you take to secure your server and your selfhosted services?English3·22 days agoFail2ban config can get fairly involved in my experience. I’m probably not doing it the right way, as I wrote a bunch of web server ban rules — anyone trying to access wpadmin gets banned, for instance (I don’t use WordPress, and if I did, it wouldn’t be accessible from my public facing reverse proxy).
I just skimmed my nginx logs and looked for anything funky and put that in a ban rule, basically.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto memes@lemmy.world•We have pushed on with the project in secret13·25 days agoMy favorite is Barry Marshall. He thought there was a connection between bacteria and ulcers, which was an unpopular opinion at the time. So he intentionally drank the offending bacteria, got sick as expected, and then people believed him.
More here, including (which I didn’t know until now) cardiac catheterization.
I’m sure better sources exist but https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/these-five-doctors-experimented-on-themselves-and-made-big-breakthroughs
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto memes@lemmy.world•We have pushed on with the project in secret9·25 days agoInnovation, perhaps; progress…that’s something else.
I’m gonna try to guess the most likely LLM response to your post, trained on reddit data:
“This.”
How’d I do?
Pretty sure that’s completely acceptable in parts of northern California (source: born and raised in northern California).
This realization/acceptance led to us having kids.
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto News@lemmy.world•Elon Musk suggests the U.S. should privatize the Postal Service and Amtrak2·2 months agoThere’s also the very real issue of rail priority: https://www.marketplace.org/2024/09/10/amtrak-spars-with-freight-train-industry-over-rules-of-the-railroad/
qjkxbmwvz@startrek.websiteto Technology@lemmy.world•~~Brother accused of locking down third-party printer ink cartridges via forced firmware updates, removing older firmware versions from support portals~~ [see comments]English3·2 months agoBut this is a weird thing to lie about — the only reason to implement toner DRM is to get people to buy your cartridges. But if your public statement is, “it’s ok to buy off brand cartridges,” then…well… that’s kinda weird.
Not saying you’re wrong, and they could be trying to have their cake and eat it too (court the anti-DRM crowd but also scare people into sticking with their toner). I’m just saying your snarky/sarcastic response seems unwarranted here.
…and Synology users will probably have to wait even longer, and pay even more — what a deal!