• surph_ninja@lemmy.world
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    The women I know who have given up on dating get involved in big community groups of women sharing hobbies, and seem more fulfilled than ever.

    There’s no female loneliness epidemic. It’s the dudes who are killing themselves.

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    It’s ok ladies, I’m single and I like yappy ladies! Please come mine and I’ll make some queer coffee for us both.

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    If a young man plans to treat my daughter with anything but respect, I’m gonna beat his ass and his dad’s ass.

    It won’t be a fight either. It’ll be a mugging. An actual crime.

    I’m ok with that. My record is clean.

    I’ll get probation. Maybe.

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    Women have been fine alone for millenia dude. Men used to kill each other making it so some women would spend the rest of their lives without them. Now many of the men are chosing to remove themselves without dying. Not that I’m one to talk. But I’d rather be a painfully shy man, than an asshole.

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        Bullshit. As a white man in America, that’s fucking bullshit. The majority of us are fucking worthless.

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          As someone that is unfortunately privy to the “locker room talk” you are absolutely right. I think I made friends with someone and then they say the absolutely most horrendous things because they feel comfortable enough to go mask off.

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            I’m able to sus out the really heinous people ahead of time, but I keep making the same mistake of mocking vaccine conspiracy theorists to people who end up being vaccine conspiracy theorists when I’m first getting to know them. 🤣

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    Women are already figuring out that they are better off alone, thanks to the spread of this anti-female philosophy. If men are going to be selfish partners, in which only their needs are important, women are going to figure out that the only thing they really need men for are sex.

    Women already know they can get laid anytime they feel like it, and men, even the best looking, most charming men, don’t have that same advantage.

    Women don’t need men, men need women, and EVERYBODY knows it.

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      This is me in a nutshell. I just don’t see any upside to dating anymore. And the news gets worse by the day, so I’m no longer even hopeful of the future.

      I mean Trump got Tate a known rapist and sex trafficker released from his house arrest and into the U.S. But a legal immigrant who is INNOCENT, married, and a father gets kidnapped and illegally imprisoned.

      How can any woman not see the excessive hatred towards them?

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        My mom was a lifelong Republican, but was agonizing over voting for Trump, who she knew was a terrible person. Then the Pussy Grabber tape came out, and that sealed it. For the next few years, whenever his name came up, she would go on a prolonged rant, starting with “I dont know how any woman could vote for that man…”

        Now she votes a straight Democratic ticket. The Republican party is dead to her.

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      🤣 I love posts like this… It’s a good reminder that the online world is full of lunatics that never leave their basements, spouting BS as fact with the authority of a 13 year old whose dad is a CIA / Special Forces Hacker!

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      No one needs selfish partners, no one is really better off alone, men have attractive privilege too, anyone can learn how to be a ho doesn’t mean it’s wise.

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        we’re not concerned about good looking and charming men shooting up a university

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            The statement is “women don’t need men, men need women.” Some group of men-without-women will become suicidal-homicidal and shoot up a public area. No group of women-without-men will become suicidal-homicidal and shoot up a public area.

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              In general, yes, almost 100%. However there have been a few female school shooters and I think relationship issues played a part in at least one of their backstories.

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              …I mean…that just plays into classic masculine, testosterone-fueled traits. Anger, rage, inflicting pain & death. That’s what men do. Enough even sign up to inflict pain & death as a job.

              Women? Not so much. “Women-without-men”, as you put it, will have a different response to the same trauma. Not the exact same responses. Equal, but different.

              They might try to kill themselves, but women aren’t as successful at killing themselves as men are. Men are by nature ultra-violent, they make sure the job gets done via gun or other over-the-top means. Women tend to want an easier or painless death, try to overdose or cut themselves. It can work, obviously, but with a smaller success rate.

              I’ve been saying it for over 20 years now, you want to start killing a bunch of random people? Great. Start with yourself. I don’t encourage mass shooters or any of that nonsense; if you’re unhappy, get the help you need or go to the store & buy some rope. Don’t go killing people for no reason other than you being unhappy in life, that’s just dumb & selfish.

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        The best looking and most charming men can get laid easily. You’re delusional

        2 week old account with the month and year inluded in the name.

        You’re soooo smart. 🙄

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    I find it so fucking funny that they simultaneously complain that women don’t want them and then as a reaction they threaten being alone as if that isn’t something these women have chosen over them.

    Like, honey, I’m boisterous and aggressive and get far more female and male attention than they do. Those that leave behind these archaic expectations are far more social and happy than these dudes.

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      And then to top it off they cry about the male loneliness epidemic and how women arent dating them so theyre lonely.

      Anything to avoid admitting being the problem.

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    My wife is like the literal definition of a “quiet and gentle spirit.”

    She could beat this guy’s ass with a tire iron but I guarantee she would do it without saying a word.

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      Man here. I would 100% choose dying alone over manipulating some poor woman beaten down by society’s misogyny and trying to subjugate and gaslight her with incel treatment. That probably sounds extreme to these freaks, but my eventual partner will be completely equal and we’ll have a better relationship because of it.

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      Funnily enough, women choosing to be alone also pisses those guys off. Basically, women having autonomy pisses them off.

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      Women need to stop choosing to be alone.

      And start choosing to keep around women friends, and we’ll-armed.

      These pieces of genetic filth don’t believe no is a valid answer.

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        I have zero faith in Americans doing anything about it, and they’re the ones who are lousy with nazis right now.

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          Acting like the problem only exists in america and there aren’t similar things happening in europe will be how you fall into the same trap.

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      We still can if we stop being pussies. Pretty sure soon it won’t be a choice though, it’ll just be kill or be killed.